To help ensure a sucessful conversation, we ask that you agree to the following.
Agreement #1: Show up!
When you sign up for a conversation, others in your group are counting on you. We limit the size of these conversations so that everyone has a quality experience. If one or two people in a small group fail to participate, the conversation may not have critical mass. At a minimum, plan to visit the conversation space at least once every two days.
Agreement #2: Stick with it!
There may be times when your participation starts to wane. This can happen for a number of reasons: Life can get busy, you can forget to check in, or maybe you've found parts of the conversation uncongenial.
Be aware when this is happening, and remind yourself of your commitment to participate. Often, working through these times of flagging interest or discomfort is the most rewarding, because it helps the group reach a new level of trust and depth.
If you find you must withdraw from the conversation, please be sure to let the group know.
Agreement #3: Be respectful.
Being respectful of everyone in the group is essential for keeping the lines of communication open. We do not need to agree with what someone says to be respectful of the person who says it.
Being respectful also means honoring people's privacy. Do not share what people write with others outside the conversation, unless you are given permission.
Agreement #4: Do your part to resolve any conflicts that arise.
Conflicts are opportunities to learn, not only about other people, but also about ourselves. Each of us has a unique perspective, based on our individual life experiences. Resolving conflicts helps us become more objective about ourselves, more inclusive of others, and more creative in our relationships.
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